How many women is it acceptable for a man to sleep with per year? My friend just dumped her man for being a…?
Question by Doctor Who: How many women is it acceptable for a man to sleep with per year? My friend just dumped her man for being a…?
I had a friend tell me she dumped a man because he said he’d been with more than 20 women in his life so far (he looked like he was maybe 30 years old). At what point is a man too sl*tty to date?
Does it matter if he wears a condom, or if he is honest about his intentions, or if he was really interested in the women, and it just never works out?
Can you help? Leave your own answer in the comments!
14 Responses to How many women is it acceptable for a man to sleep with per year? My friend just dumped her man for being a…?
Leave a Reply
I don’t really care what women think to be honest i will do my own thing they can go do their own.
Simple answers
November 21, 2012 at 2:01 am
A male should never “sleep” with a woman and a woman should never lower herself to allowing her bed to shared with a male.
Catalina
November 21, 2012 at 2:22 am
Yes I know. There is just this double standard these days that men who sleep around are OK. But in reality, it should not.
Overall for example:
A woman should not be questioned for sleeping with 1 man as long as they were in a relationship.
But men who sleep around impulsively should be questioned.
LARRY
November 21, 2012 at 2:31 am
I think that’s normal for a man that age.. Now if he had attempted 20 relationships by 30, he’s not very successful at them and she’s got a reason for rejecting him. But casual sex or casual sex/some relationships, okay. His intentions and practicing safe sex would make a difference.
ccr
November 21, 2012 at 3:01 am
He should nail as many as he can. Men shouldn’t be chaste, women should.
randomzz
November 21, 2012 at 3:17 am
Most probably, your friend has NOT told you the true reason why she dumped him, so you should not pass judgment without hearing both sides.
Laura
November 21, 2012 at 3:36 am
Player (or playa) is the correct term. Only women can be sl*t.. A sl*t is a female who sleep around a lot, it is a feminine term and therefore should only apply to women. .
Gun Fanatic
November 21, 2012 at 3:39 am
You’ve been brainwashed by the loony feminists who want to have men thinking the same way about themselves as men used to have women thinking about themselves – if you get what I mean. It’s a way of trying to take control of men’s sexual identity so as to dominate them.
jomac
November 21, 2012 at 4:03 am
As long as he doesn’t have any diseases, I really can’t see how it’s any of my business how many women he’s slept with before me. (And of course, it’s none of his business how many partners I’ve had either.)
That’s just one of my rules of dating. It’s more than I need or want to know.
Bee
November 21, 2012 at 4:44 am
If he doesn’t have any STD’s then I really do not care
raye
November 21, 2012 at 5:36 am
I haven’t thought of a particular number per year in mind. Of course, some years may just be more sexually active than others in someone’s life but I would begin to raise my eyebrows at 4 or more partners in a given year and more than 2 per year on average. And I would expect both numbers to be lower over time. It’s one thing to be a little wild in your teens and 20s maybe. Same for women.
But it’s not really a numbers thing. For me, a man is too slutty to date if he isn’t looking for real relationships in general and doesn’t care who he has sex with. It indicates he doesn’t have any respect for his partners and ultimately not even himself. It also suggests he is less than honest. Again, same for women.
I agree with Bee, there’s really no need to know how many people someone has slept with before. It’s not a question I would ask or answer of someone I was dating.
♥ ~Sigy the Arctic Kitty~♥
November 21, 2012 at 6:30 am
I think keeping score is pretty cheap. More important is experience. I hope your friend encounters a man that dumps her because she dumped the 20 date man. What’s past is past!!!
Charles B
November 21, 2012 at 6:37 am
Actually it just shouldn’t be an issue. I will never judge a girl by how many guys she’s been with and I would hope she wouldn’t judge me by how many girls I’ve been with. What matters is now. the past is the past. If problems happen now, we’ll deal with them now, if and when they happen. That’s it. Her choices in the past are absolutely none of my business, and mine none of hers.
HatrickP
November 21, 2012 at 6:57 am
Male sluts are the worst, you never know what their drippy willies have. It’s disgusting, more than 20 is gross. Sorry I don’t want to date the town gigolo.
Oh guns fan, wh0re you’re right that’s more accurate in describing overly sexual males giant wh0res.
Rain B
November 21, 2012 at 7:16 am